I'm Bringing Sexy Back

A blog about human sexuality and sex in the news.

Tuesday, October 31, 2006

The different types of sex women enjoy


There are six ways that you can have sex with a woman and she will enjoy it, according to an article in AskMen.com.

The article is informative and is a great tool for men who do not know their way around the bedroom.

Women need a little romance and seduction in order to get to the state of their peak arousal. Most men do not realize "You have to preheat the oven before you stick in the turkey" so to speak.

It is important to understand your lover's needs and this is key for a surviving relationship.

To have sex without the feeling of excitement is having routine sex. The only way to remain close to your partner is by spicing things up.

Though there are different ways to have sex with a woman- every woman is different.

I recommend that men do their research on how to please women and not just try to pick up on signals.

Some women are shy in the bedroom and might not be as forthcoming about their needs. A great way to understand these types of females is by reading articles on how to seduce them.

You can also buy guide books to help her achieve that orgasm she has always dreamed about.

Friday, October 27, 2006

Demanding Sex in your sleep


Scientists have discovered a medical condition where patients have sex or demand it in their sleep, according to a Reuters article.

The patients who have been diagnosed with the condition are known as "Sexsomniacs."

It is interesting that this rare condition exists because at one point or another most people have dreamt of sex.

If you sleep alone how would you know if you have the condition?

I guess the only way to find out whether you are a "Sexsomniac" is if you sleep with someone else in your bed.

If you haven't had anyone in your bed for a while, you might have the condition and you don't even know it.

Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Sex in the Islamic world


The culture in the Islamic world brings out sexual frustration among a new generation of young Arabs, according to Spiegel Magazine.

A man can spend a night in jail for having an unused condom in his pocket.

The idea of sex is taboo in most Islamic countries and young adults are finding ways to express their sexuality without getting caught.

Sex is a natural way of life and it is sad that people have to treat sex like a hide and seek game.

Friday, October 20, 2006

Director uses real sex in the film "Shortbus"


Shortbus, a film that took nearly three years to make because of its sexual content, may have audiences at the edge of their seats because the actors aren't necessarily faking their orgasms.

In an article in the Miami Herald, the cast members speak out about how they adjusted and became comfortable with each other.

This film is a great way to document what real sex and intimacy is about without the pornographic raunchy feel. I found it interesting that one of the cast members speaks about his strong catholic background and how sex in his household was never talked about and used for procreation only. What a fabulous way to open closed-minds!

I am looking forward to the release of the film locally in the Hippodrome State Theatre Nov. 3-16.

For those folks who are not in Gainesville, Fl., check out MovieFone to see if the film is playing near you.

Tuesday, October 17, 2006

Police officer suspended because of myspace


A police officer was suspended last week because of his graphic Web page on Myspace.com, according to a recent blog.

Jeremiah Love, 26, included pictures of dismembered women on his Web page and under his occupation he listed "super hero/serial killer."

The Web page contained sexual content including a woman with the word "loath" carved into her flesh.

The Web page, which has been removed from MySpace.com, was also listed under the name Leatherface.

I wouldn't want Love to "serve and protect" fellow citizens and myself after viewing his
Web page.

Although, Love said he made the page as a joke I think I would still be skeptical about him and would not feel comfortable knowing that he's a law enforcement officer.

This issue raises important questions. Do we want employers looking at our personal Web sites???Is it a safety precaution or is it invading privacy???Although the Web sites are open to the public should employers use the Web sites as basis for employment??

Friday, October 13, 2006

Homosexuality among animals


The Oslo Museum of Natural History concluded that homosexuality among humans is not "unnatural" as a result of observing homosexuality in over 1,500 animal species, according to a Yahoo News article.

There are people who are close-minded about homosexuality. Lately, it seems same-sex marriage is a debate that each state has been battling. Take a look at this USA Today news article, which entails gay rights activists trying impose same-sex marriage back on the ballots.

What people do in their bedroom is their business. If gay couples want to get married then I believe they should. With a strong Catholic background, one might think I would be opposed to same-sex marriage. However, given that we live in a country with so many privileges and freedoms, same-sex marriage should be allowed.

Call me crazy but everyday my life is filled with stress because of certain responsibilities and obligations that I have. I don't really have the time nor the energy to worry about other people's lives and what decisions they make. I think America spends too much time worrying about issues that aren't a big deal. If only people would be as passionate about the war as they are about same-sex marriage.

Tuesday, October 10, 2006

Sex Addicted


The HBO hit show "Sex and the City" still reaches a wide audience, even though the show stopped airing in 2004, according to a Chicago Sun-Times article.

Many women can't get enough of watching the show that celebrates four women in their 30s and 40s living the single life in New York City.

Although, many women are instantly hooked, I think men enjoy this show just as much as women do. I think anyone can relate to or understand the realistic situations that this show re-enacts.

It is without a doubt one of the best shows that I have ever had the pleasure of viewing on television.

If you haven't watched a single episode yet, I recommend to catch one on TBS or buy the DVD collection a.s.a.p.

Tuesday, October 03, 2006

Sexual arousal for men and women is the same


A recent study in Canada by McGill University found that women become sexually aroused as quickly as men, according to a Science Daily news article.

Researchers found that both genders showed signs of arousal within the first 30 seconds of watching a sexually explicit film.

Finally, proof that women are not much different in the bedroom then men are. From interviewing several anonymous female sources, I found that most women are embarrassed about their sexuality. Surprisingly, these women between the ages of 19-47 believe that enjoying sex too much is wrong.

I think it's ludicrous to think that women do not have as much needs as men do. Clearly, scientific evidence shows otherwise. I'm exhilarated that someone finally took charge and proved it.